Census records show Lillian living in the Guisborough area with her family in 1881 and 1891 but after that no trace can be found of her in census, marriage or death records and she effectively disappears.
Except she doesn't. For in the belongings inherited from her nieces - my great aunts - she is ever present.
There are photos of a slightly austere but stylish woman in the 1920s, gorgeous Raphael Tuck Oilette post cards sent to her nieces in the 1930s and beautifully inscribed books given to her nieces and nephews as birthday and Christmas presents.
